"Put the controller down and do something productive." If you are a parent, chances are you have either said this, thought it, or had it yelled at you when you were younger. When we see our children staring at a screen, completely absorbed in a game, our default parental setting is often anxiety. We worry about passive screen time, missed homework, and the dreaded "brain rot" the headlines love to warn us about. But what if the problem isn't the screen time itself? What if th